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Condolence From: Al Garcia
Condolence: Strength. Determination. Fortitude. Resilience. Courage. As I sit and ponder the life of my Cousin/Aunt Raquel, these words come to mind. Such simple words for such a complex and durable life.

To acknowledge the passing of the embodiment of everything that meant family, togetherness, security, and acceptance, is without exception, demoralizing and ravaging to the body and soul. It leaves me weakened and diminished. It saps my very being of logic and reason and makes me ask questions to which no answers come.

My mind reflects on moving, living pictures of Raquel and of Tio Pete, and of my own Dad and Mom and of course us kids so many years ago. Those were unforgettable moments, yet when they were happening it was simply life at its very best. Now those images emerge again in my mind. I remember voices, words, facial expressions, movements, feelings of contentment. And life was good and safe and forever. And today it all seems so long ago now.

Today I weep. I weep for the loss of innocence that we all once had. I weep for the loss of those that made my life complete and safe and good. I weep for Raquel today. She was my lifeline to my past and the wondrous memories that have kept alive the essence of everything that once was.

Today there is a shadow where once there was light. In time, I know, the shadow will slowly dissipate to once again let the sun shine in. But today, I sit alone underneath the shadow of despair and grief, and wipe away the tears that flow so easily from my heart. I know and accept the cycle of life. But still I grieve, still I weep -- even knowing that she will live forever in my heart and in the hearts of those who loved and cared for her. But it will never be the same again. And I weep . . .

Will Think of You Always
Your Cousin/Nephew Al Garcia
Tuesday August 29, 2017
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