My deepest sympathy in the loss of your beloved family member. To lose a loved one in death is painful. Our loving heavenly father Jehovah feels your pain also. He encourage all to look to him for comfort. At Psalm 34:18 it says; Jehovah is close to the brokenhearted; He saves those who are crushed in spirit. Also, Jehovah made this promise at Revelation 21:4;And he (God) will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away. To learn more about this promise and view the faith strengthening video; Is There Hope for the Dead? please visit our website: jw.org.