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Thomas Rockwell
B: 1956-03-12
D: 2019-11-15
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Rockwell, Thomas
John Clark
B: 1945-12-07
D: 2019-11-14
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Clark, John
Robert Pierce
B: 1962-03-05
D: 2019-11-12
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Pierce, Robert
Milton E. "Uncle Milty" Alley
B: 1944-08-03
D: 2019-11-10
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Alley, Milton E. "Uncle Milty"
Virginia Heald
B: 1927-02-11
D: 2019-11-09
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Heald, Virginia
Malcolm Shapiro
B: 1928-01-19
D: 2019-11-08
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Shapiro, Malcolm
Kenneth Merrill
B: 1938-09-22
D: 2019-11-05
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Merrill, Kenneth
Jean Maynard
B: 1923-01-31
D: 2019-11-04
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Maynard, Jean
Laurence Henry Morse
B: 1926-08-13
D: 2019-11-04
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Morse, Laurence Henry
Josephine Benedetto
B: 1929-05-05
D: 2019-11-03
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Benedetto, Josephine
Christopher "Tiffah" Harris Holyoke
B: 1978-01-24
D: 2019-10-30
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Holyoke, Christopher "Tiffah" Harris
Corinne Goodell
B: 1929-01-25
D: 2019-10-29
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Goodell, Corinne
Robert "Bob" Higgins
B: 1928-03-08
D: 2019-10-28
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Higgins, Robert "Bob"
Alan Weeks
B: 1929-06-19
D: 2019-10-28
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Weeks, Alan
Ethel L. Shedd
B: 1938-02-27
D: 2019-10-27
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Shedd, Ethel L.
Patricia Sweeney
B: 1960-09-02
D: 2019-10-27
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Sweeney, Patricia
Vianney L. "Vinny" Soucy
B: 1963-03-15
D: 2019-10-27
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Soucy, Vianney L. "Vinny"
Ulrike Kozak
D: 2019-10-26
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Kozak, Ulrike
Robert Wass
B: 1934-05-11
D: 2019-10-25
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Wass, Robert
Carolyn Ouellette
B: 1936-09-30
D: 2019-10-24
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Ouellette, Carolyn
Jonathan Snow
B: 1924-01-27
D: 2019-10-23
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Snow, Jonathan

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Condolence From: Anne Whentringhame
Condolence: I was so sad to hear, at Christmas, from a mutual friend that Joe had passed away. I knew Joe, only briefly, from his time in Germany in 1990 when he was serving with the 112th. He was a kind, generous, lovely, funny, genuine man. Although I live in England I did meet up with him once more when I visited Maine in 2000 during a tour of New England. We continued to exchange Christmas cards until a couple of years ago.
My deepest condolences to his wife & family. With love Anne xx
Friday January 18, 2019
Condolence From: Scott Finnegan
Condolence: First met Joe back in 92 at the Bangor Wal-Mart. He was always quick with a laugh or a joke, that's what stuck with me about him all these years later.

I'm glad to know he's pain-free now, and I know he's left his family strong enough to get through this.

Thoughts and prayers are with Joe's wife and family. God bless..
Thursday July 05, 2018
Condolence From: Darlene Coltart
Condolence: Wanted to extend my condolences Cindy & family. Joe had a great heart & the natural talent to treat everyone, instantly, as a old friend. Or at least, that is how he make me feel & everyone I saw him talk with at CW events. I am glad to have known him a little.
Saturday June 30, 2018
Condolence From: The Allen's
Condolence: The sunshine is less bright without you in this world dear cousin. Your infectious smile and irrepressible sense of humor will be terribly missed.

Deepest condolences Cindy, Aunt Anna, Diana, Larry and all Joe's step children/nieces/nephews, grands and friends.

Love,
Michael, Angela (Butera), Ben & Alayna Allen
Thursday June 28, 2018
Condolence From: Judy Spencer
Condolence: Well Joe, the last time we spoke you talked about sitting at the right hand of our heavenly father up there. Let's hope you got a good seat not too far from the bathroom just like you were hoping for. Take care and say hello to the relatives for me
Thursday June 14, 2018
Condolence From: Shirley Thurston
Condolence: I didn't see you often in the last several years but I've always thought of us as really good friends. I'm miss your smile and your laugh - and your stories. RIP Joey. You'll always be in my heart.
Tuesday June 12, 2018
Condolence From: David Coco
Condolence: Dear Mrs. Butera, Cindy, Larry and family

I was saddened to read about Joe's passing in the BDN.

I got to know Joe and his brother Larry when we served together as altar boys at St. Joseph's Church in Brewer more than 40 years ago.

I remember Joe as a funny, kind-hearted and generous guy who loved his family, parish and community. We enjoyed working together "behind the scenes" as servers for Fr. Harvey. With Joe and Larry around, there was a always good camaraderie and a joke to share.

I am grateful to Joe for his years of service to our country.

Rest in peace, Joe.

To Joe's wife, mother, daughter, brother Larry and the entire Butera family, please accept my heartfelt condolences.

David
Monday June 11, 2018
Condolence From: Henry Deshane
Condolence: Rest in peace Joe. You always made me smile!!
I know you did this to avoid the PT test!!
Monday June 11, 2018
Condolence From: Carol n Anthony Long
Condolence: We will always remember your laugh and your sense of humor. You will be missed. RIP. God bless. Tony n Carol Long.
Monday June 11, 2018
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