So very sorry for the loss of Shandelia. The death of a loved one is hard to deal with. May you find comfort in your memories of her. Also, may Jehovah God comfort you in this difficult time. 2 Corinthians 1:3,4. May you be assured the dead know nothing at all. Ecclesiastes 9:5. The Bible promises a time when our loved ones will be resurrected from the dead. John 5:28,29. If you would like more information about how to deal with grief please visit jw.org.