Joan - My heart is with you and your family. I was shocked to hear of Phil's passing. I recall the Wautoma days, remember how Phil and family would come up for Grandma Runnels birthday. I remember how he had met you and was determined to marry you, and how humbled I was to be best man at your wedding. The years pass too quickly and sometimes end too quickly. I have read the other messages and am thankful for the lives he touched. I was also touched by his love of his pets. His dad also had that same love of his puppy.I think his name was Jacques. Over the years I have also been a teacher, counselor and pastor. I have prayed for you and your family during this time. I will keep you in my prayers. When a Christian passes, their spirit goes to be with the Lord, but their memories remain. May your memories bless and comfort you. Blessings. Jim Johnson