The Lessons
After graduating from high school in 1997, I wrote Mr. Smith a letter thanking him for everything he had ever taught me. It was lengthy and I was afraid the message would get lost in the wordiness. In responding, Mr. Smith told me that he had shared this letter with a student teacher. She immediately started crying. He said, "THIS is what teaching is all about. THIS is what makes all of the long days worth while."
He was a very special man who appreciated our immaturity.... or excitement for life. He allowed us to goof off, tell jokes, cry about our problems and have a "nothing" day. We had MUCH respect for him. When it was time to be serious, he never had to fight with us.
He LISTENED to us. He actually CARED about us. We never felt as though we were burdens or that being with us was part of his job.
Graduation night, he gave us a pep talk in the auditorium before we walked the stage. We were told of the significance of the night and to remember that this was the last time that all of us would be in the same room together. He said that some of us would move and some would pass, but that we should cherish this moment.
As he stood at the bottom of the ramp of the stage to send us off, he must have received a hug from each and every one of us as we went back to our seats. We loved him so much.
There is a country song from the movie soundtrack "8 Seconds" that has always reminded me of him.
Once in a While by Billy Dean.
"Once in a while
Someone comes along
That one in a million heart
So pure and so strong
They can face up to the tears
And somehow still find a smile
We only get it
Every once in a while
Once in while
Someone has the eyes
That one in a million look
Never tells lies
They can get you on your feet
To walk that extra mile
But we only see it
Every once in a while
That's why we call them heroes
That's why we know their names
And once you've heard their stories
You're never quite the same
That's why we call them heroes
The best thing they ever do
Is point to the best in us all
And say, "If I can, you can too"
Once in a while
I still hear his voice
That one in a million sound
Like two laughin' boys
He would hate it if we cried
That never was his style
Oh, we still miss him
Every once in a while
Oh, they can face up to the tears
And somehow still find a smile
But we only get it
Every once in a while
Oh, how I miss him
Every once in a while"
I will miss you. All of my love, Jess
Posted by Jessica Hurley
Tuesday December 7, 2010 at 12:54 pm